Tough to see. Easy to Be. Islamically.

Tough 2 C. E Z 2 B. Islamic Solutions to Hardships.

Why make things more difficult and tough? Its far better left simple and easy. If you make things hard people will find and stick to easier way. When you don’t allow or facilitate enjoying of halal people will fall into haram. How many adverts are perverted and directs us towards our own destruction? When you do good and set a good example by marrying then you are displaying live Islamic advert for the gratification of Allah and truly those who do so will be victorious.

How much more points is gained for being in the caring hands of husband wife relationship. Why make hard when you are made of semen and you are dead most of the time in history. Since your alive life is nonexistant when compared to the time spent lying on the grave. So the wise would do what ever it takes to relish when they are alive by prepairing their akhirah and enjoy the best of life- to get married.

Females has the greatest asset and sharing it with husband is like charity for men. The longer they keep to themselves the closer to expiry date they are reaching. Enjoy and let those who have the right to enjoy private parts of spouses enjoy by making the whole aspect of marriage easier before any accident that damages approaches. So its better to leave complex desires when choosing spouses and try enriching each other’s life through simplistic approach. Be pleasant, have pleasing intentions then open up the door to halal as you don’t know if you will do tonight.

Waiting for perfect man? He's masturbating honestly. No matter how humble and good they may seem all of men has a fundamental defect. Men think desperately about women. Some may seem in control but the truth is the most discerning amongst us Bill Clinton can’t control it. So the sooner you get married and facilitate actions that deters us from heedlessness and help develop relationships with spouses the better it is for the generations to come as they won’t have to indulge in masturbation or porno. When parents acknowledges the problem then takes steps to resolve Allah swt guides them and their offspring and that’s one of the reason why the supplication of parents are accepted.

The longer the man waits the more porno he watches and he becomes so addicted to it that even after marriage it doesn’t stop especially if the wife isn’t cooperating to his fantasies. You might be thinking no my man won’t do that but trust us brothers the chances are the longer the man is not married the more addicted and active he’s indulging and becoming immune to the haram. So sisters its your duty as guardians of your brothers to assist and cooperate both before and after marriage. If you wish not to marry due to any reason then its obligation to assist the brother to get him married or else as the hadith states correctly grave issues will afflict the ummah and the humanity as we can see increased HIV in Muslim nations which is affecting all levels of society.

Increased in Porno production with Islamic themes shows the amount of interest to utilise our fantasies. Many of us know and may use the phrase of ‘’the youth is our future’’, then why would you want to test the youth with things that even you couldn’t handle. If so then why wouldn’t you start to do good and really help those brothers and sisters as well to get married. As it is clearly half of the deen as we know, and it also helps sisters and brothers to lower their gazes, not to forget that it also saves their time and energy on doing halal things only.

There are clearly so many things that have happened before and think this as an example, that the People of the Book used to be people with clear rules and statements, they changed them and started to mutilate and change the true word of God. InshAllaah Muslims would stay out of this and stay on following and living according to the true teachings of Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala.

But as we can see People of the Book did have these issues with the marriage and really do you ever think that how are they in this position now? Do you just think that it came as a clear blink from the sky? Truly Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala send them warnings and messengers to guide them. But they rebelled and disbelieved in them, and so they changed the words sent to them so that they would be able to follow their lusts and do ‘’whatever they wish to’’.

Sadly but truly we follow the People of the Book in many ways, Alhamdulillaah we acknowledge the truth and see the miracles and signs which came to us. But if we keep on doing things such as preventing marriage and halal things from happening, and making it easier to do haram. Honestly look at the things which surround us think about the punishments which happened to the civilisations before us, and before those who were before us.

How many of them went on committing sodomy and praised it as thing so normal, how far do you think that we are from this? Only Allah knows best and truly He is the All-Knowing, All-Wise. But it is our responsibility to try and prevent things that are no good from happening and if we prefer that we should only sit and wait then we can certainly only think what is the pain that we cause to the future generations, because of our slumber. Now its the time to restart and revolutionise from innerself and start application of holistic Islamic approach on every aspect of life. After all aren’t we created for the glorification of our lord?

When you think it clearly and use the mind which Allah gave you so that you would make better things, and prevent evil. Understand and pay attention that it is always someone who has to take the first step. If we are not the one’s to take it then we can only be sure that if there are future generations to come some people among those generations, will possibly be the ones taking the first step and what would be better than to take a step towards something that is good and for the benefit and well being of the youth and perhaps even for the good of our children and even for our grandchildren and Allah knows best.

Advertisements like these stand out and try to make Islam and the Islamic marriage to look bad. So here are few of them and if we would stand up for change and start to get married and also doing and encouraging people to do good/ halal and prevent harm/ haram from happening, and so it would be possible that even non-Muslims and some Muslims alike would get the real meaning and picture about the marriage and about the important things in Islam. Inshaa Allah we will be victorious and will be guided.

Why hide the truth. Parents should frankly teach alternative techniques concerning intimate relationships for better welfare of children. Future generations are more challenging and if we dont cooperate they are straight into the pit.

Do as much good as possible don't leave things for latter hoping things will get better. Gradually things rot with time and only our good actions will reap. The longer time you let your spouse wait the worse things get due to increased anxiety, stress and ultimating encouraging entrance to door of haram since it becomes easier than halal.

Integration of Muslims to communities in Europe and USA is of great concern. Anyone acquainted in basic Islamic knowledge would realize that our beloved prophet Muhamed (PBUH) catalyzed integration of diverse differing tribes and dynasties. through marriages that truly fosters love, care and mutual welfare. Those sincerely looking for solutions to dis-fragmented society would be shocked with the pragmatic successful examples set by the prophets peace be upon them and those who followed their light.

If you have children would you like to see them in pain? Then how you allow the child of your sister in Islam to live in vain pain? Is it because you want to see if he's really a man? If thats the case then expect him to fail because you are testing to the limit of failure to come to your conclution.

Remember death a lot and try prioritizing as you should the actions that yield higher points. Just like the way you prioritize your life decisions based on actions that yield the most pleasure. Think straight without barriers.